Name Compatibility Calculator (FLAMES)

Play the classic FLAMES name game to see your relationship type.

Free FLAMES name compatibility calculator — enter two names to play the classic playground game and reveal Friends, Lovers, Affectionate, Marriage, Enemies or Siblings. Runs entirely in your browser.

What does FLAMES stand for?

FLAMES is the classic playground game where each letter is a relationship type: Friends, Lovers, Affectionate, Marriage, Enemies and Siblings. The algorithm eliminates letters one by one until a single relationship type remains.

The Name Compatibility Calculator plays the classic FLAMES game — the playground favourite that turns two names into a relationship verdict: Friends, Lovers, Affectionate, Marriage, Enemies or Siblings.

How FLAMES works

The game has three steps, exactly as you’d do it on paper:

  1. Cancel common letters. Strike out every letter the two names share, one-for-one.
  2. Count what’s left. Add up the remaining, uncancelled letters in both names.
  3. Eliminate around FLAMES. Using that count, repeatedly cross out letters of the word FLAMES, looping around, until a single letter survives.

The surviving letter is your result. Because the steps are fully deterministic, the same two names always produce the same answer — there’s no randomness.

Just for fun

FLAMES is entertainment, not science. It’s a nostalgic, shareable game — type two names, screenshot the verdict, and pass it on. Everything runs locally in your browser, so the names you enter are never uploaded.